Rule #6 – Do not sit in the corner and sulk. It draws attention in a negative way. Draw attention to yourself, but on your own terms. TD: Fun and happy people are attractive. Get out and have fun and you might be surprised how many people approach you! Rule #7 – Blend in by standing out. TD: Use caution here … You don’t want to stand out so much you appear psychotic; just enough to catch someone’s eye. Rule #8 – Be the life of the party. TD: Again, use caution here. Coming across as a gregarious person is great, but you don’t want to come off as frat-boy or party-girl.